House Rules

We're here to create a sexy, playful and welcoming space to dance, flirt, explore and connect. These guidelines help us keep the atmosphere consensual, respectful, inclusive and fun. Please read these rules before attending. By entering House of Kink, you agree to follow them. 

dress code

  • Leather, lace, latex, PVC, mesh, collars, harnesses, lingerie, fishnets, showing skin, and other fetish-inspired pieces all work. You don’t need to follow the event theme exactly, but you do need to make an effort to dress for the space.

  • Not on their own. Everyday clothing needs to be styled or accessorized so it feels intentionally kink or fetish-inspired.

  • No. The theme is there for inspiration, not as a requirement. Kink or fetish attire is mandatory, but your outfit does not need to match the theme.

  • Nipples may be exposed, but genitalia must remain covered.

  • If you arrive without making a reasonable effort to meet the dress code, you may be refused entry without a refund. Our door team’s decision is final.

  • Coat check is available, so you can arrive covered up and change or reveal your outfit once you’re inside.

  • Check out our Pinterest board for ideas. You don’t need to copy a look exactly — use it as inspiration to create something that feels like you.

House of Kink is a kink-focused event, and our dress code helps us create the atmosphere we're all here for. You don't need to dress according to the specific event theme, but you do need to make an effort to dress in fetish or kink-inspired attire.

Consent Is Mandatory

Clear, enthusiastic and ongoing consent is required. Always ask before touching someone or inviting them into an activity. If someone says no, pulls away, seems uncomfortable, or doesn't reciprocate your interest, respect their boundaries and move on. Uninvited physical contact will result in removal from the event.

Respect Personal Space

Flirting is welcome, but approach people respectfully, give them space, pay attention to social cues, and accept "no" gracefully. No leering. No staring. No insisting. No following.

Zero Tolerance for Harassment

We have zero tolerance for harassment, coercion, discrimination or non-consensual behaviour. Violations will result in immediate removal from the event.

What's Not Allowed

  • No exposed genitals or sex on site.

  • No personal kinky implements (e.g., whips, floggers, etc.).

  • No outside alcohol.

yellow wrist bands

If someone is making you uncomfortable, unsafe, or you've witnessed something concerning: Tell the HoK team. Our team members will be wearing high-visibility neon yellow armbands so you can easily identify them.


If you have questions about any of our policies, please reach out to the HoK team before the event at events.houseofk@gmail.com

photography & privacy

  • No. Personal photography and video are not permitted. This helps us protect the privacy of everyone attending.

  • Yes. A sticker will be placed over your phone camera at entry. Please keep the sticker on until you leave and keep your camera pointed downward when using your phone.

  • Any unauthorized photos or videos must be deleted, and the person responsible may be removed from the event.

  • Visit our designated House of Kink Photobooth or ask one of our professional photographers. Please don't use your personal phone to take photos, even if everyone in your group agrees.

  • Our designated Photobooth has an assigned photographer who will take your photo. After the event, all Photobooth photos will be included in an album emailed to ticket holders within a few weeks.

  • The Photobooth album is shared with ticket holders. By choosing to have your photo taken in the Photobooth, you consent to your photo being included in this shared album. We are unable to send individual photos separately.

  • No. Photos taken in the designated Photobooth will not be used by House of Kink for promotional materials or social media.

  • Yes. Professional photographers and videographers may capture performances, the atmosphere of the event, and guests who pose for or request photos.

  • If you pose for or verbally consent to a photo outside the designated Photobooth, that image may be used by House of Kink in future promotional materials, including social media.

  • Our photographers and videographers will make every effort to avoid photographing guests who don't wish to be photographed. However, we can't guarantee you won't appear incidentally in the background. If you're concerned, please speak with the photographer, videographer or a House of Kink team member on site.

Your privacy matters. Personal photography and video are not permitted at House of Kink. Here’s what to know about phones, our Photobooth, and official event photography.

Liability and Privacy Waiver